Only the ones you should want.
Now I'm generalizing here; but hey that's how shit gets explained.
When I say "only the ones you should want", I'm not giving a big "fuck you" to every girl that isn't into a masculine appearance in their partners.
What I am doing is giving you, the man, a fucking WARNING. I mean SOUND THE ALARM, POP OFF THE FLARES, SEND OUT THE S.O.S. Whatever it takes. Because a woman not attracted to masculinity is a sign SOMETHING HAS GONE WRONG.
Women are genetically composed and inherently geared towards attraction to masculinity. I didn't make it that way, you didn't make it that way; that's just how it happened. So when a girl is going against nature you need to be aware that something is off. Now this isn't necessarily to put blame on the girl; most of the psychological issues and factors that play into a woman's attraction are subconscious and are a result of past experiences. Don't expect the girl who got abused, taken advantage of, assaulted, or otherwise traumatized by a man/men in her life to be attracted to strong masculine men. Some may take the route of subconscious attraction to those men, but many don't. Instead they shut down emotionally and push away those men in fear as a defense mechanism.
So those girls are going to be attracted to weaker guys; for the simple fact that they feel they need the control and the power.
Example #1:
Apparently this is where the NBC Peacock likes to reside when its feeling a little dark.
Example #2:
"My shirt could not possibly be more ironic."
Example #3:
Is it just me or does his jacket say LADY....
Alright I've had enough googling "skater/emo/scene guys" to last a lifetime. Now let's assess the above for a second.
Similarities between the examples:
1. Long/Styled hair - Longer/more styled hair is associated with females; shorter/simpler hair is associated with males. Fairly simple concept.
2. Posture/Poise - All 3 examples, in three different positions, are in non-dominant poses. Both 2 and 3 have raised eyebrows, which is a sign of submission and illustrates how non-threatening they are. And 1's hands... just look at them.
3. Lack of Imposing Physique/Presence - None of the above have an imposing body frame by nature; so they are at a disadvantage there. To supplement this, they simply don't possess the power of presence. I honestly feel I could run any of these three over with my niece's tricycle.
4. Piercings - Piercings are in general considered a female practice. And really I can accept an ear or two or whatever from some guys but lips/eyebrows/nose/etc piercings just scream "I wish I could afford that sex change" to me.
These are just a few details noticeable through the photos; mannerisms really explain so much more which I will get into later.
But the point is, there are girls attracted to the above guys because of their overly-feminized appearances. It connects more with them, and they feel safer and in more control. When in actuality guys who dress as such tend to be the most unstable-pill-popping-passive-aggressive motherfuckers around.
Enough on that though.
I think I should also take a moment to address teenagers as their situation is similar to the aforementioned.
I say this because girls in junior high/high school are not yet normally attracted to the characteristics of men. As girls have to ease into attraction; they can't be thrown into the deep end full of strong confident aggressive facial-haired men (not that there's much of a pool of those out there at that age). There are in essence 2 types of guys teenage girls are attracted to.
1. Cute/Pretty boys - Justin Bieber Syndrome. Feministic, non-threatening, relatable, and easy transitioning from female companions to male companions. Need I say more?
2. "Bad" boys - Teenage girls are new to attraction and relationships and are quick to realize that "bad boys" give the most emotional excitement and rush. They provide plenty of drama to satisfy any teen girl by giving relationship "highs" and "lows".
Although to the credit of females, there are girls who are attracted to masculine guys at those ages; there just aren't a ready supply of masculine teenagers as they're still going through puberty. But to those awesome teenage girls (and guys who man up quick), who embrace masculinity and masculine traits early on; God bless. You will be the better for it because while your girl friends go out with boys that get stopped trying to go into PG-13 movies and constantly lying/cheating/abusing douchebags; you're going to be too busy being awesome and happy with your man friend. And jealous bitches are going to be hating.
The thing about all these other non-manly attractions is, in general, they never last and girls grow out of them. There are some girls who get stuck in certain phases of attraction and they are the ones with the most issues that you want to avoid anyways.
In general though, the ideal man can get virtually any girl he so chooses. I'm not saying it's always going to be given on a platter, but a true man can create attraction with almost any woman.
In my next post; I will go into the physical attraction of masculinity. So ladies bring the replacement panties because there's going to be some manly fucking men up in that bitch. Guys; just a notepad.
